Bumming at Another Blogger’s Home
Posted by Cap in Even More Ramblings |I think I’ve reached a new status in being a denizen of the web — I’ll be heading up north to the Bay Area for a few days, and a fellow blogger, SVB of The Digerati Life, has been gracious enough to let me crash at her place.
I’m sure her kids will love this abrupt visit from an online stranger. I’ve been told by my mom that I’m super awesome and good with kids, so everything should be super spiffy.
This reminds me of the trip I took last year when I went to Houston via Amtrak (for kicks and giggles). While waiting at the barren Houston Amtrak station for my friend to pick me up, I started up a conversation with a family waiting for a cab.
“So is this your first time in Houston?” asked the nice lady with two boys and one girl.
“Oh no, I’ve been here before when I visited family.”
“Oh so you’re visiting your family again?”
“Actually no, I’m visiting my friend.” I told her nonchalantly, “I hope I can recognize her.”
“That’s very sweet of you. Has it been awhile since you guys have hung out?”
“Um… actually I’ve never met her before. She’s a friend that I met from the Internet.” I told the nice lady as she noticeably shifted one of her kid away from me.
Momentarily of silence later…
“Oh don’t worry. I’ve talked to her for years — on the phone too. I’m fairly sure she’s real and I won’t be robbed or murdered.”
Still some moments of silence…
“And it’s not what you think. This isn’t one of those visit.” I continued, “I’m staying at her boyfriend’s house, who was kind enough to offer me a night in his spare bedroom.”
“What was that?” I asked, “Oh, um… no, I’ve never met him before too…”
Sign of the times, I guess. A few years ago, I wouldn’t have imagined myself making friends or working with people online. Now I’m seeking lodging from fellow bloggers.
Zomg! Welcome to the 21st century? Still not brave enough for CouchSurfing.com though.
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December 4th, 2008 at 5:46 am
I actually invited two internet friends to my wedding! I’d spent half a year planning my wedding with them online, so why not? Have a great time!
December 4th, 2008 at 9:36 am
That’s hilarious, you have to admit it didn’t sound quite right. I’ve met some of my online friends before, I belong to a dog forum that has get togethers and meet ups. It’s funny how we can feel so close to people that we’ve never met in person. Have fun in the Bay Area.
December 4th, 2008 at 9:58 am
Looks like the experience is fairy common these days! Stuck at the airport. Flight delayed. Woot. At least there’s free wifi.
December 4th, 2008 at 10:33 am
I remember when meeting people on the internet (to date) was still considered weird and creepy! It caught on faster in the gay community, since it’s harder to meet potential mates and there’s less selection locally, so to speak. I fully admit that I met my first girlfriend online (oh, the horror!), but I didn’t tell my friends at the time. I was too embarrassed! That was eight years ago. Now it’s considered fairly normal, if a little unusual, to meet a mate online. How the times change…
December 4th, 2008 at 11:14 am
I’ve used couchsurfing.com twice and both times were awesome! One was for 3 days before my bike ride across the country and the second was for a night before a 100 mile charity ride. She was awesome and made me breakfast at 6 in the morning!
December 4th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
WOW!!! You guys must have great communication with each other.
I guess I’m just hyper-sensitive…or just plain chicken. Maybe I’ve just had bad experiences online?? I’m trying though….I guess that’s half the battle.
December 4th, 2008 at 6:15 pm
Hey Cap,
I was trepidatious about CouchSurfing too… but ended up with no other options for a trip to Paris, and so bit the bullet and went for it. As long as you choose a host with lots and lots of recommendations from surfers who’ve stayed with them, you’ll have no problems. I had an _excellent_ time, and it turned out to be much more valuable for the entertainment and friendship than for the money saved.
December 5th, 2008 at 8:56 am
Wow, you should not talk to strangers. :)
December 6th, 2008 at 7:23 pm
Sounds fun — enjoy!
December 6th, 2008 at 8:39 pm
Some years back I was interviewing people online for an article about writing for children. One of the writers and I struck up an e-mail friendship that went on for a couple of years. When I told her I’d be visiting family on the East Coast, she invited me to come and visit.
When I got off the train, we shook hands and then hugged. She picked up one of my bags, saying that a friend of hers thought it was VERY dangerous letting “a stranger” stay in their home. The bag almost slipped out of her hands as she talked.
“Oh, careful with that bag, Judith,” I said. “That’s the one with the Stryker saw in it.”
Luckily for me, she has a sense of humor and I *still* had a place to stay.
December 6th, 2008 at 9:15 pm
I had a wonderful time with Cap. It was awesome!! He IS fabulous with kids and I truly enjoyed his visit with us. Great food, fun and I had a chance to show Cap a bit of what it’s like to live the suburban life of a soccer mom. haha! :) We found out we had a few more things in common than we first thought (beyond blogging…ahem..Duke Nukem??). Anyway, Cap — thank you for coming over, and for the awesome parting lunch we had today. We hope to see you again sometime not too long from now…. Can’t believe I actually saw you TWICE this year ;) .
December 7th, 2008 at 6:44 pm
I love your blog!!! I just stumbled on it and really find it hilarious. Keep up the good writing. I have started a new personal finance blog…check it out if you get a chance. I may be linking your blog from mine. Great writing.
December 8th, 2008 at 1:13 pm
Nice blog! I remember visiting my aol buddy like 9 years ago in Sydney with my best friend. Everybody thought we were nuts! but we had a blast for the whole 2 weeks. I’ve been meeting people online now for about 15 years, including my husband and still keep in touch with most of them. Gotta try the couch site though..
December 9th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
I met my partner online over 12 years ago and we have been together ever since…
December 27th, 2008 at 9:59 am
Hey, y’know, people you meet IRL first sometimes turn out to be creeps and ax murderers too. I wonder what the percentages are–has anyone thought to compare? I figure I’ll get to know someone about as well online as in person as long as they aren’t lying about who they are and what they look like (i.e., men posing as women or vice versa), because folks you know in person can hide various aspects of themselves too…
Glad it turned out well. I’m living in Ohio now primarily from meeting people online.