Buyer’s Remorse Sucks
Posted by Cap in Even More Ramblings |Buyer’s remorse can be quite a crappy feeling, especially if the purchase in question was something of high-value and non-refundable—like a car or a house. Whether it’s doubt or guilt driving the feeling, it can get pretty unpleasant.
I’ve had my share of buyer’s remorse in the past, though in recent years I haven’t experienced it as much (except for that recent $27 book).
The strange thing about buyer’s remorse though, is that it seems to have little impact on those that experience it frequently, e.g., those that buys a bunch of crap and complains about it all the time (aka me).
“Argh! I shouldn’t have bought that. Don’t think I can afford it.”
Two weeks later…
“Argh! I shouldn’t have bought that. Don’t think I can afford it.”
For some of my frugal friends though, buyer remorse can be quite a crazy thing. They’ll beat themselves up over the guilt of some small purchase.
“Gosh. I really shouldn’t have bought that pair of pants. It’s like, $20!” (From Ross).
And then I’ll have to calm them down a bit, reminding them that they’re not splurging like a mad person.
“Look, when was the last time you bought a new pair of jeans? 1999? It’s fine.”
I suppose that’s the better type of buyer’s remorse.
Thankfully, most purchases aren’t some life changing decision and are easily reversible. Having a little too much buyer’s remorse lately? Then you might want to check on your spending habit or the decisions you’ve been making.
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May 16th, 2006 at 6:06 am
Iused to have buyer’s remorse all the time. 2 weeks ago I put 3 CD’s, total about $45.00 on lay-away. I wanted, at the time all 3 of them, but now, I realize I DON’T want them that much, so I guess I will go and take them off lay-away. I’m glad now I actually didn’t waste the $45.00 on something that would have most likely just sat on a shelf.
My habit is if I see something I really want at a store to wait maybe 2 or 3 trips to the store before I buy it. Failed miserably with the CD’s.
May 16th, 2006 at 9:16 am
Where did you buy your book?
Why not read it, and then return it for a full refund? :P
May 16th, 2006 at 3:29 pm
it was at Barnes and Noble, monday’s post. although I probably could have done that, I’ve returned the book already and I’m just waiting for my hold from the library.
waiting a day/trip or two is a good idea.
My worse buyer’s remorse that I can recall right now.. is when I bought the 2001 Civic five years ago. Reason? I wanted a black car instead of a silver car, but in a rush to get a car (hey, high school and all), I bought a silver one w/o much thought. Pretty silly reason, but besides the color preference, I found out that I was pretty nonchalant about the car as a whole… I realized that had I waited, saved up more, I could have ended up with a better car, or a car more to my liking.
You’d think that car buying wouldn’t be an impulsive deal, but yeah that wasn’t the case for me. I ended up convincing a lot of my friends to just wait on a vehicle purchase, till they can get research/test drive enough to find something they really want—instead of just settling right away on a ride immediately.
But yeah, live and learn. Not sure when I’ll buy a new car, since the Civic is will probably be fine for the next decade or so (heh), but if I ever get a new ride… I’ll be test driving the entire category I’m looking at.
May 16th, 2006 at 4:32 pm
What did you do with the BMW? j/k
I’ve not had remorse for a while. I’m pretty good at controlling myself.
Dave