Have You Ever Been Burglarized or Robbed?
Posted by Cap on August 23, 2007 |Ever got burglarized? Or worse, robbed?
Over eight years ago, I was walking home from school, feeling pretty good about myself because I was getting my “exercise” for the year. As I opened the front door to my house and got ready to dash up the stairs, I noticed some broken pieces of glass on the floor from the backyard door. My eyes followed upward, and when I saw the hole in the backyard door’s lites, I immediately realized what had transpired.
Suddenly, I heard a door slammed-closed upstairs.
I stood there and froze.
Four very long seconds passed by and I decided to slowly walk out of my house. I wasn’t sure if the wind had slammed shut a door, or if the burglar was still in the house — whatever the case, I wasn’t about to stick around to find out.
I ran to the neighbor’s house, rang the doorbell, and upon not getting a response — knocked on the door as calmly as I could.
“Uh, can I borrow your phone? My house got broken into and I’m sort of not sure if the burglar is still around…” I told my neighbor as I stared back at my house.
After telling the police operator the situation, I realized that there’s not much else I can do so I stood there and waited.
To the my citiy’s police department’s credit, two police cruiser showed up within minutes. The officers came up to me and quickly asked me for further information, and what follow suit were like scenes from a television crime drama.
The group of four officers drew their firearms, and two of them proceed to head to the back of my house, in case whoever might still be in the house tries to make a run for it. As the remaining two officers cautiously head into my house via the front door, I looked at my watch and my heart skipped a beat.
It was four in the afternoon — my sister’s class ended earlier. She might have been home.
Oh shit, I thought to myself.
Oh shit, I hope she wasn’t home when this happened. Please, please don’t let her be home.
I wanted to tell the officers, but by this time they were already in my house, and they gave me strict instruction to stay put outside.
Floods of unthinkable images rushed through my mind, and I swallowed hard.
To make matters seeminly more dramatic, it started to rain.
So there I was, holding my neighbor’s phone in one hand, standing in the middle of the street as I wonder if my sister was laying hurt (or worse) in her room — and it was raining.
Yeah, I couldn’t believe it either.
Thankfully, the drama ended there.
No one was upstairs. It was just the wind. My sister decided to hang out with her friends after class that day. My house got ransacked. Socks used as gloves scattered throughout the second floor. A few hundred dollars was taken from my drawer. A couple of thousands dollars and numerous jewelry was stolen from my mom’s room.
My sister’s room was untouched — her room was extremely messy, and the thief didn’t bother to search through her room. Heh.
The detectives told us that it looked like a standard smash and grab job, and by the patterns of ransack, they most likely didn’t stick around for a long time — especially since they didn’t bother to go through my sister’s room.
I wouldn’t say this was an everyday experience, but the fact that I almost forgot about the event made me realized that it didn’t have that much lasting impact on me. Had it not rained that day, I probably would have forgotten about this whole ordeal.
I’ve heard from others that have felt more violated after a burglary, and some have also felt like their privacy was invaded — but for whatever reason, I never felt like that. Of course, had this been a robbery, I imagine my feelings would be quite different.
True, for a few moments while I was standing there in the rain, I was quite scared. All the possible worse case scenarios were running through my head, but upon hearing the all-clear from the officers, I breathe a sigh of relief.
It bummed me out that I didn’t deposit my money into the bank earlier, and my mom was that her valuables were stolen — but at the end, my family was safe, and we all knew that’s what’s really important.
Have you ever been burglarized or robbed? How did you feel afterwards? Feel free to share.
Related Link:
- The Best Place to Hide Money: Conversation with a Burglar – PFadvice.com
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August 23rd, 2007 at 7:52 am
My apartment was broken into once a few years ago. The only things that were stolen was a VCR, TV, and a CD jukebox style changer. Oh, the changer had about 300 CD’s in it, so it was a pretty penny to replace. About a year after that, I kept having a few DVD’s and CD’s come up missing along with some piggy bank money. This happened over a couple of months time and my landlord finally realized it was a faulty window lock that was allowing one of my neighbors (a crackhead) to sneak in and steal a few at a time.
August 23rd, 2007 at 8:47 am
My one reaction is: Why would your mom have several thou laying around in her room? Who keeps that kinda cash laying around?
Anyway, yes, I have. I had a soft top jeep for a while, when I lived in an apartment. One day I came out to fine someone had cut the plastic window and stolen my speakers, amp and radio. They managed to pretty much just break everything as they ripped it out (the terminal blocks had broken off and were still in the vehicle).
I called the police and was told it wasn’t a “big” enough deal to do anything about. All they did was take a report.
I also looked around at nearby apartments, and noticed that the front door of the one I was parked near had a “neighborhood watch” sticker on it. Hooray! I knocked on the door and asked the woman who lived there if she had seen or heard anything the previous night.
“Oh! yeah, I heard some noise out there last night”
“did you see anything? can you describe anyone?”
“Oh, I was watching my show, and I didn’t want to miss it. I didn’t get up and look.”
So much for neighborhood watch when it’s composed of idiot TV addicts.
August 23rd, 2007 at 10:27 am
I’ve never personally been robbed. My roommates car was broken into a year ago and they stole her iPod (the one time she left it in the car, go figure) and the face plate to her stereo. Why just the face plate? Cause they were too retarded to figure out how the get the whole stereo out.
The closest I’ve gotten to being robbed is when our house was broken into a year or two ago. Luckily (for me) our house is in MA and I live in CA. But it sucked for my dad and his girlfriend… and my poor cat! It was two teenagers who broke in and they had two neighborhood girls (who my dad knew really well) stand guard while they took whatever their small-minded selves could grab. That’s what really sucked… that we knew the two girls and their families. It sucked even more when they got arrested… more for them than us, heh.
The interesting part was what they all decided to steal. The biggest thing they stole was the 30″ TV from my room upstairs. Which makes sense, you can get a lot for a TV. But they took the one from UPSTAIRS. As opposed to the bigger but lighter (a flat panel) TV that was downstairs… in the living room… that’s right next to the door they broken into. Clearly they weren’t all that intelligent with their whole operation. They also stole a laptop… but only one. There were two of them, right next to each other, both of them not plugged into anything. And they stole my dad’s junky, beat-up, plastic, free laptop and left the nice, clean, fully loaded with thousands of dollars worth of software laptop (aka, mine… that I really need to take back next time I go home).
They also stole a bunch of jewelry from my room, that was all fake crappy crap (which is why it was in my room… on the other side of the country, heh).
And they stole some random crap from my dad’s room but left the really nice and expensive stuff like his manual camera and all of the glass that goes with it and his 4 digital video cameras (that he never uses anyway).
But oh, they did think enough to take the $50 Wal-Mart special, Sony CyberShot camera… cause that’s worth so much more than all those old bulky lenses.
It’s really just the ignorance of it all that gets to me. Like, if you’re gonna break into someone’s house to steal shit, at least KNOW the value of the shit in the house! And know where to look for things! We had several places in the house where expensive things (and cash) are hidden… and you know, they’re pretty common places, yet none of those places were even brushed over.
But at the end of it all, my dad and I were both grateful for the same thing… at least they didn’t steal Simba (the cat).
He did a very good job being scared shitless and hiding in the back of my dad’s closet… for 3 days. :)
August 23rd, 2007 at 12:37 pm
Oh yes. Both my house and my car were broken into within the span on 12 months.
First, the house. The house had been vacant for a bit before I bought it (REO deal…) and I was making some improvements to the house before I actually moved in. So, the evening that I had the moving truck packed up and ready to go was the evening I drove over to the house only to see the front door was WIDE open. It took a minute for me to really grasp the fact the front door to my house was wide open, and that’s when I freaked out a bit. Called the cops, waited almost an hour for them to get there and that’s when I finally went inside. They had kicked in the front door which was totally smashed apart, spray painted some of the walls, brought in a newspaper from one of my neighbor’s homes and spread it around the house, but didn’t take anything. Didn’t take any of the power tools that could have been easily sold or pawned, didn’t take any of the construction materials in the house…nothing. (Removing the busted up door and trying to replace it at 8PM on a Sunday when everything is closed sucks ass. It took forever to actually fix.)
Fast forward almost 12 months. (actually about 2 weeks short of the year anniversary of the house being broken into.) It’s fall and I’m leaving to go to work one morning. I open the back door to throw my bag in the backseat and I notice glass all over the seat. Turns out someone had smashed in one of the little windows on the driver’s side of my car to actually gain access into the car. They popped off part of the ignition, but clearly couldn’t get the car started. Oddly enough, I had probably a dozen CDs in the car they didn’t bother to take. (About 4 or 5 months after that, I had someone slash one of my tires and wedge a bowling ball under my front axle. No, I am not kidding, but I think that was the homeless dude that asked me for $11 when I was walking from my car to my house, and I wouldn’t give him anything.)
Not a single one of my neighbors has had any problems while living there, and I don’t bother anyone in the neighborhood, so apparently it’s really bad luck. I finally caved and purchased a security system though, because I felt so unsafe living there alone. It’s really, really awful to not feel safe in your own home, and there’s also a huge financial impact! The cost of replacing my front door, replacing the busted car window and the slashed tire, not to mention the ignition that had to be replaced and now the monthly cost of a security system.
August 23rd, 2007 at 2:40 pm
Yup. Our house was broken into a little over a month ago. Bastards came in on July 4th by kicking in the back door. I have a monitored alarm on the house and they alerted me and the police immediately, however the police didn’t bother to show up until after 45 minutes and another phone call. Of course once they were there they didn’t bother doing any real police work. They just took a report and left.
After writing a nasty note to the mayor’s office about the incident, I had two police sergeants show up at my door this morning to talk about my complaints. I detailed the conversation on my blog. Sadly, I still haven’t had anyone follow-up on the actual CRIME that was committed.
Overall we didn’t lose that much, although one of the items was a guitar from my brother-in-law’s church mission in the Philippines that is irreplaceable. It is mainly the feeling of being violated and the knowledge that our police are completely useless.
August 23rd, 2007 at 5:23 pm
My house was robbed when I was a teenager, but the bugler was so sneaky about it, we didn’t notice for an entire week. He didn’t go for the TV or the expensive stereo equipment – he went right for the jewelry. He actually took my jewelry as well, which was worth jack money-wise, but meant the world to me because he took the necklace my sister gave to me for being a bridesmaid in her wedding.
We’re actually 99% sure about who did it, but we have no proof. And even though it was 5 years ago, it still hurts like crazy to think about.
August 23rd, 2007 at 9:30 pm
Yeah, I had my apartment broken into one day while I was at school. They stole my entire PS2 video game collection, and the PS1 memory cards (but not my collection of very RARE and VALUABLE PS1 games). They flipped through the 200 DVDs (which were in a CASE with a HANDLE) but didn’t take them. They also didn’t steal the video game systems … or the games inside them – so they actually ended up stealing empty cases for a few games.
They didn’t take any of the really expensive stuff…
They also smashed a ghost statue (that they brought in – wasn’t mine) all over the kitchen.
Didn’t take jewerly, CDs, DVDs, laptops, or anything else.. just video games.
August 23rd, 2007 at 10:16 pm
As I am saving up and considering moving into my 1st home in the near future security is one thought that comes to mind. I have never been robbed or burglarized as one prereq. of apartment living is parking in my own garage. But my other belongings may be at risk when the back door is kicked open.
I was thinking of setting up a few cameras inside and outside of my future home along with motion detectors. Maybe some James Bond like infrared beams would also be neat. If any activity while I am not home is detected, video and notification could be sent to my cell phone. That way I could contact the police directly and not come home to a surprise I do not want.
August 24th, 2007 at 9:08 am
My apartment was broken into last year while my wife and I were out of town celebrating our anniversary. The thing is the apartment wasn’t broken into, the door had even been relocked. It took several days for us to notice things gone, but once we did we filed a police report. They took my laptop, digital camera, video camera, a Warren Sapp bobblehead, and a couple of hundred dollars in change that we had saved up as gambling money for a trip to Vegas. In the end we found out that the manager’s daughter was visiting and had taken the master key and had broken into several apartments and stolen several laptops. We found this out when the manager found and returned our laptop. Talk about violation of trust.
August 24th, 2007 at 11:54 am
Someone broke into my then-boyfriend’s car when he was away one weekend and left it for me to drive. There was absolutely nothing for them to take, and I wouldn’t have even known that it had been searched through if it weren’t for the jumper cables being in the front seat. It was funny though, because for months afterwards, we blamed whatever we lost on the burglar (“they stole my Poison CD! Oh, wait…I just found it”)
August 24th, 2007 at 6:22 pm
About 8 years ago, our family came home and realized that someone broken into our house. The scary scary part was nothing valuable was taken. (Jewelery, some cash, etc) Believe it or not, our underwear was taken. To me that was creepier because I felt violated. There was only my mom, my sister, and my younger brother. We all felt vulnerable and the police never got any leads. We moved about three years later, but I still worry once in awhile. Overall, though, I realized what happens, happens and you just deal with it.
I’m glad you and your sister were not hurt. That’s the important thing.
August 26th, 2007 at 2:00 pm
I made the mistake of parking my car in a bad area in Baltimore City one night and someone broke into my car. The city has a huge drug problem and I’ve heard stories of addicts breaking into cars to salvage a pack of coke so they can sell it for another high. Just be glad you are safe! It’s a scary world…
~Raymond
Money Blue Book
August 26th, 2007 at 8:31 pm
My friend at uni had her apartment broken into, they took her hifi and a few other items. The police told her her best bet was to go to the dodgy market in town that weekend and sure enough she was able to buy back all her items, the hi-fi still had her CD in it! Also about four years ago I was moving home at the end of term and my dads car was broken into while we stopped for lunch, they literally got all my clothes except what I was wearing that day, left my textbooks behind though! It took me a long time to really get over that cause everytime I was going out somewhere I would think of something that would have been perfect to wear only to remember that it was gone. Depressing.
August 27th, 2007 at 9:18 am
Around here one big problem, in addition to the perps, is the cops. My former S.O., who lived a block from my house, caught two guys coming in his front window at 2:00 in the morning (thank heavens for middle-aged male problems that send the boys to the head in the dark of night!). He picked up a phone, called the police, and reported a burglary in progress. Then he grabbed his pistol (he’s an expert marksman, career military) and told the prowlers to freeze or he’d shoot. They leapt out the window like scared rabbits and ran off before he could (or would) pursue them. It took the cops a full hour to show up.
It also took the cops an hour to show up when the two gay guys across the street suffered a home invasion, during which one of the residents escaped out a back window and was chased up the road by a thug waving a .45 at him. That episode came to an end when the fleeing victim’s shouts brought some of the neighbors out. When the two homeowners, one of whom suffered a concussion during the attack, told the police that one of the five perps was a woman, the cops responded that the two must have picked up a prostitute and been rolled by her pimp. Guess they didn’t notice the Gay Pride flag flying out front. . . .
Then when a demented neighbor tossed three gallons of used motor oil into my swimming pool, and we proved it was him to the cops’ satisfaction, an officer told me they would not arrest the man unless–these are the officer’s words, permanently seared into my memory: “unless he kills you or puts you in the hospital.” The pool’s plaster and all the pool equipment were destroyed. Ten thousand dollars worth of damage to my property was not enough to merit an arrest.
A year later, when the same guy showed up at a bedroom window at 10:00 p.m., I called 911 and complained that a man was banging at my bedroom window. No joke: the dispatcher actually said, “Well, if he tries to get in, call us back.” Uhmmm….and why would I be calling 911 if I DIDN’T think he was trying to get in??? To the Department’s credit, they did send an officer…he showed up an hour later.
And people wonder why Americans think they should have guns?
August 28th, 2007 at 2:40 am
oh wow… lots of these are pretty rough, especially the ones committed by stupid people you know.
although I knew that the response rate I got from my city’s police department was unusually fast, I’m a bit surprise at how long some people had to wait for a police to show up.
will respond to each story in a few moments. thanks for sharing guys.
August 29th, 2007 at 12:48 pm
Yes to both.
I was robbed in my early twenties. I was living in a not so great area–and some teenager stole my purse. It all happened so quickly.
My home when I was 14 and living with my Mom was burglarized. The things they took had alot of sentimental value to me–I had a pearl and coral necklace and bracelet my grandparents had given me….
I think the burglary made me feel violated….and unsafe—-I worried about being broken into again–of course it was just me and my Mom and I was a teen…
The robbery–I just avoided the area–they probably got less than $20 out of my wallet–and cancelled the one or two credit cards I had at the time—so it was just more annoying–getting a new drivers license, etc.
September 13th, 2007 at 2:09 pm
I’ve been robbed a few times but the first one has a nice story to it. The thieves broke into my apartment by actually breaking the entire door frame out (so much for 3 locks). They were then almost immediately intercepted by my 78 year old Iranian neighbor, disturbed by the noise & wielding a large & vicious ceremonial scimitar at them! They fled, dropping my VCR on the way out.
When I arrived the police were still trying to talk the gleaming blade out of my good Samaritan’s hands! He was screaming at the top of his lungs “in my country I cut off their hands!”
September 14th, 2007 at 10:56 am
When we were kids (I was about 6) my dad gave us our first bikes. Our house was robbed two weeks later, along with the bikes. All us kids were crushed and my mom was pretty upset for days after. When my husband and I bought our first house I read books about how to avoid being robbed. One was even written by an ex-thief. Lock up before you leave the house, leave music or tv on for ‘someone’s at home’ noise, even if they ring the bell to check, they can’t be sure someone is’t inside just not wanting to answer the door.
Keep the front doorway well lit.
July 21st, 2009 at 3:47 am
I have been burglarized and robbed by my parents, yes.
While I was away for 3 months they used the spare keys to enter my house and throw away everything inside, under the banner of “God told me to do
so”, since I am Wiccan and my mum is a laical nun.
Every book, tool, but also memento, diary, picture, everything since age 5 to age 28 that held emotional memory for me, gone, thrown away, irreparably lost, as if it was thrash by people that are excuses for human beings
I feel enraged and violated so much even after 6 years I havent got words for it, never feltsomething so raw and strong andbeyond hate for someone inmy life, and can’t let this go, even though I know that this hurts myself more than anyone else
December 22nd, 2009 at 5:54 pm
Me and my fiancee’s house was broken into last week. I was gone for like 1 hour to go buy the new Harry Potter movie because I had the day off from class. They must have been watching me. When I came home the front door was shut, and I didn’t even notice it until I went to open the deadbolt and the door just pushed open. I only stepped in about a foot. I saw both cats and heard the dogs in their kennels, so I went back out to the driveway. The cops and my fiancee got to house in about 5 minutes. No one was in the house. They smashed the TV getting to the XBOX and Wii. They took both our laptops, which are just old hand-me downs anyways. The landlord was kind enough to let us out of our lease early. I just can’t seem to get over what happened though. Any knock at the door or even the sound of the doorbell on the TV terrifies me. Thinking about how terrified the dogs must have been is the worst. They are so jumpy now and it makes me feel so bad. I am so grateful that the people/person who broke in closed the doors so that the cats didn’t get out because we live by a busy street. I hate when people keep suggesting ways for us to get our stuff back. I really don’t care about the stuff. I just want to put this all behind me and move. I just don’t understand why someone would do this… I am sorry to all of you whole have had this happen to you.
January 2nd, 2010 at 12:30 pm
I was at my parents house the past week and today my neighbours called me to tell me my apartment had been broken into. I cannot describe how I feel,violated,angry. The burglar not only took most of my electronics,he stole my perfumes,and removed all clothes from the wardrobes and cabinets and spew them all over the house. Its the 1st time I hav been robbed and I am scared,but thanx I hav found this blog quite helpful,coz there people here who feel exactly as I do now.
November 21st, 2010 at 7:25 am
We just went on a family vacation last Sunday with our 2 kids and on Tuesday, we got the call that our home had been broken into and ransacked. They threw a big rock right threw our glass door in the basement and started this nightmare. They went into my son’s room and took a briefcase with money in it that he had made from working a concession stand job and hadn’t put the cash in the bank yet, they took all of my and my daughters jewlery, leaving the empty jewlery boxes for us to see, yet they left the pearl necklace and earing set that I had… they took 2 of our lap tops and my notebook, the Wii and games to go with it, my sons XBOX 360 and the games to go with that, yet left his electric guitars untouched… they also took 4 of my pillow cases to fill with our belongings, and took our cameras, camcoders, GPS system that we just bought and my Bose Wave radio and earphones.. they did leave our flat screen TV… they opened every drawer in every room, and trashed my home office, making an incredible mess.
When we got the call from our office assistant, we immediately had to get off the cruise in San Juan with only an hour before we set sail to St.Thomas… the Customs Agent had to come to get us off the ship and we had to pay over $1400 to get back home the next day to see what had happened… this cruise was something that we were planning for almost a year, saved up for it, and was so excited to be away as a family unit finally… then the call came in and destroyed this family vacation, took away my sense of safety, and I can’t stop crying about the fear I have about them returning for what they didn’t take from us. I am sick to my stomach and I have lost all desire to live here anymore. My husband is also sad and angry, but we don’t know what to do about it. The police came several times, but I don’t feel like they even cared enough to pursue looking for these theives. I feel like we were targetted, as my kids did put on Facebook that we were leaving for vacation and send it out to all of their “friends”…. which is bothering me immensely. But they we found out that 2 of our neighbors at the end of the street were also robbed the same time period and also with a rock thrown through their windows, and mostly all small electronics and jewlery taken… so now I don’t know what to think. This is destroying me and I’m having a hard time leaving this house now, with the fears that I have. What do I do now?
December 13th, 2010 at 11:39 am
I was robbed Thursday at 6 p.m. on Dec. 9, 2010. I was downstairs and heard the door open upstairs and thought it was my son or husband coming home for dinner. I called out to them and the thieves ran quickly out the front door. They got jewelry from my daughter’s bedroom but didn’t get a chance to go into any other rooms. I feel violated, scared and frightened!!!!!!!!!!
September 4th, 2011 at 8:44 am
We were just robbed on 9/01/11 I feel scared to leave my house even though we now have renters insurance on what little the person left. Its a horrible feeling to not want to leave home because your scared.
March 1st, 2012 at 9:47 am
i recently got robed 2psp to go a diamond bracelet,2 cellphones woth more than 200 dollars, 2 dvd portables and toys that were over 200 dollars electricol ones i know it was my roomates little brother but i have no proofs and its weird bc i never lock my door and his little brother is like 15 years old and if it was a burglere they would of robbed my plasma and this wasnt in one day little by little istarted noticing things are missing im so mad i dont have proofs.all i did is baught a lock for my room